September 25, 2021

4 thoughts on “Love Me, Because I Am Needy?

  1. I stumbled on your blog and thanks to somebody who shared one of your posts on Facebook. I have observed little nuances in your writing. You address variety of issues exactly how you have mentioned in your about. You are versatile in your cognitive process. How you always say “we” instead of I. How you feel strongly about everything you write about. You don’t write anything just for the sake of it. Do you? You respond to people with positivity while acknowledging negative vibes. You are not scared to admit your bad and sad days. Your feelings are all over the place which makes you real and raw. In today’s world where people are afraid to show their true feelings and say sweet things that are likeable. You are a breath of fresh air. I love how you add little flicks of humour here and there. And I am not flirting with you. I am a woman. So chill, keep doing whatever the fuck you want (in your language). You are as lovely as your name.

    1. I’ve been reading your comment over and over again from the past two days. I didn’t know what to say so I didn’t. I can’t fathom the fact that you took out the time to go through all of these crazy posts to observe and pick out little details that I don’t even consciously take care of. I have realized it only after you put it forward that I always use “we” because it is not a mindful decision and I just believe in harmony. I can’t even thank you enough for going through this blog and writing about how you felt about it. It’s very constructive and moving. And, yes, I can’t write just for the sake of it. It just wouldn’t come naturally to me. You know what I mean? I love my bad days as much as I cherish good days. We learn from bad days right? You understood that only by reading all of it? Wow…You are something. You are funny. Thanks for clarifying that you are a woman because I don’t see many women encouraging another. It’s sad but true. Thank you. You are the kindest. Your name is beautiful. Thank you for stopping by. Keep in touch. <3

  2. Interesting one! and this type of jumping onto relationships fuels the break-up leagues, then it becomes vicious circle of make up and break ups. Surely we need time, personal meetings.. Hope it serves as the eye openers to those who are in a rush!

    1. Exactly, we then begin the blame game after the break ups and make ups. We never study our own pattern of getting into relationships. We are constantly in a rush to do “tasks” which makes relationship or marriage seem like a chore and we want to be done with it as soon as possible without building foundation for real and pure relationship. We need time and functional brain to take right decisions of life. Because time is precious and we can’t be wasting it with anybody just like that over and over again. Thank you 

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